Philosophical Essays, Oxford University Press,pp. The volume is a memorial to the late Robert Solomon, who brought emotions back into the philosophical spotlight after decades of neglect. Few papers directly engage Solomon's work, however, so it is not intended as a tribute to his contributions.
Listen to parents talking to young children. Often the message is less than approving. If you worked harder you could do as well as her.
Many of these messages enter our brains before our conscious memories are fully formed. They may be buried somewhere in our minds, but they are real. Of course, parents have to train young children. But not all parents balance their criticism with approval. This self-critical stance interferes with the warm, loving, mutually accepting, and deeply satisfying relationships we crave all through life.
Are relationships really that important?
The Harvard Study of Adult Development followed people for as long as seventy years. Some thrived, some sank. What was the common factor among those who flourished for decades, in every way? I sucked at relationships as a child. I was the awkward kid who got left out of playground games.
Yet, there was a part of my life that was quite different. It was full of love and joy. Let me tell you about Jolly. Jolly was about two feet tall, hairy, with patches of brown, black, and white.
For me, it was love at first sight. He was bouncing around frantically, his tail wagging so furiously that it might have fallen off. I pestered my parents until they agreed to get him for me. In no time at all, I was experiencing why dogs are called our best friends. Jolly was completely in love with me, judging by his behavior.
Sometimes a teacher would tell me off in school. To him, I was still the most wonderful person in the world. He would still burst with joy when I got home, bury me in licks, desperate for me to play with him.
Sometimes I would return feeling really low because other kids had been particularly nasty to me. Jolly would still jump on me when I opened the door. He would still wag that tail dangerously fast. If he could talk, I believe he would be spewing out love poetry to rival Shakespeare.
It was enough if I went to the next room and came back. He would still be almost bursting out of his skin with joy at seeing me again.
It was as if he could see something in me that I could not see for myself.Having tried and failed to replicate key findings herself, she notes flaws in others’ methodology, documents her own conflicting results (with slight methodological modifications), and, to make sense of it all, rebrands emotions as a type of learned, social knowledge, akin to knowing the difference between muffins and cupcakes.
Evolutionary Explanations of Emotions fitness. Attempts to improve our understanding of the connection be tween emotions and adaptive behavior may provide a focus for syner gistic efforts by cognitive and evolutionary psychology. Emotions may be paradigmatic"specialized, domain-specificDarwinianalgorithms" of the mind (Cosmides .
Martin Seligman is a pioneer of Positive Psychology (the term itself was coined by Abraham Maslow), not simply because he has a systematic theory about why happy people are happy, but because he uses the scientific method to explore it.
These twelve essays (ten newly published) are by some of the most distinguished emotion researchers in philosophy. The volume is a memorial to the late Robert Solomon, who brought emotions back into the philosophical spotlight after decades of neglect.
Key 3: Secure God’s Healing for Your Faults. All people have something about themselves they don’t like. Each of us has a tendency to focus more on our flaws and points of . That’s why emotional sobriety is also a key factor in early recovery.
What is the definition of emotional sobriety? Emotional sobriety is the ability to cope with the .